How To Plan A Funeral Using Colours

How To Plan A Funeral Using Colours

This week I have been thinking a lot about the meaning and effects of colour in our lives. Colour is such a fundamental way in which we express ourselves. We see in it everything, literally! From the choice of our clothes, our lunchtime salad and the living room walls. It’s symbolism and meaning is taught to us by our loved ones, society and our culture.

Colour is also such a personal experience. We all have our own favourite colours; people like different colours like they like different foods. Research has shown colour evokes different emotions and feelings with the lighter end of the colour spectrum bringing feelings of happiness and energy (yellow, orange, green and purple) compared to darker colours that are associated with calmness or sadness (blue, brown, black and grey).

Since I help people through the bereavement process, I see a lot of black and dark colours every day. But if you know the Lady Anne team, you might have noticed that we love purple! We do this because in combination with our butterfly logo, it represents change which how we see the bereavement process.

Understanding the effect of colours is very important in helping to understand both the grief and happiness process. So, since it’s a colour I see a lot, I’ve collected some ‘trivia’ about black to share with you.

Did You Know?

  • Black carries both negative and positive connotations
  • Positive representations include power, sexuality, sophistication, formality, wealth, and style
  • Negative representations include mystery, fear, evil, unhappiness, depth, sadness, remorse, anger, and mourning
  • In combination with white, it symbolises the ending of a chapter with white representing new beginnings
  • At its most basic level, colour is a vibration of light. Not everyone sees colour frequency in the same way which is why someone might call the ocean “blue-green” and another might call it “green-blue”
  • Black is good for communication! In combination with yellow, it has the greatest visibility compared to other colours, which is why we see it on road signs and in advertising

Hopefully, you learned something new, and when the time comes, you will have better understanding of how to plan a funeral using colours. If you have something to add or an experience to share with the affect of colours then please feel free to share with us - we’d love to hear from you!

 

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Some of the families we've helped

“I just wanted to send you our sincerest thanks for everything you and your incredible team did for us in making the most perfect day, celebration and farewell of our beautiful Harper.

I have given a lot of thought to your business and the industry and I think it is perhaps the most important business for families to get it right when it comes to planning a funeral which may be sudden or may be a long time in the making. Either way, when one is faced with the unfortunate situation of needing to arrange a funeral, only then do you realise the importance of getting it right.

We experienced first hand the polar opposites the industry offers. It is not just about the cars, the booklets, the music and all the things that make up the day - its about the service, the care and most importantly it’s about the people.

From our very first conversation we could sense your genuine care to our situation and your attention to detail was obvious - this was very different to the previous conversations we had with others we had been referred to. Those other companies wanted to commence meetings with the paperwork side of things upfront which is a very confronting thing to do just days after losing your loved one - and when one of the others that I am referencing couldn’t even refernece our daughters name as our meeting started - we were horrified of how poor the service of care could be.

This is where you and your team shine. After feeling very lost in our search to secure the perfect funeral director to create the perfect day, my wife all of a sudden recalled you standing out the front of your office each morning watering the surrounding gardens to ensure a beautiful front of house. Well, I can assure you, it is not just the front of house that is beautiful - its the entire package that is beautiful.

Your manner, your direction and your expertise is evident from the get go. Nothing is too hard for you or your amazing team. The personal care made us feel like we were the only funeral you were working with at the time, and that’s exactly how it should be.

The finer detail, such as driving past our house so our daughter could go past our house one last time, then leaving the most beautiful flowers on our doorstep, to bumping into us at the Church because you were just doing your own research to make sure the day was seamless. This combined with your recommendations from every aspect as everything was very foreign to us, you were able to guide us to achieve the most beautiful farewell.

The day itself was simply perfect. Not once did we have a concern. The car was shining, your team dressed beautifully, cold water provided for us, directions for our guests, directions for us. Everyone commented on how amazing the day was and how incredibly your team were. Seamless is the only word I can use. It doesn’t stop here.

Your personal care and guidance then allowed us a more intimate farewell the following day (we are so grateful for for this recommendation and possibly would have missed this special day if you had suggested it was the best idea). Again, you and your team made us feel like you had nowhere else to be, and no one else to help. Just us. The setting was beautiful, the celebrant (that you arrange and recommend) is a delightful, your team make this day even more special than the last.

This is something we never want to go through again but there will be so many others, that like us, have no idea where to start to look for the right funeral director for their own special day. All I can say is that I hope that they appoint Lady Anne Funerals. We learnt a lot quickly and it is again a business many do not ever consider needing but without question one of the most important businesses to select the right person and the right team.

I welcome any of your future potential clients to contact me if they wish to discuss our experience with the amazing Lady Anne team. We thank you for giving our beautiful baby the most incredible farewell that was exactly how we imagined it, you just made it happen.”

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Lee Dowdall
Karen has supported my Mum and me through the most difficult week of our lives as we not only planned a funeral, but interred my Dad to his new home. I will be forever grateful to Karen for her ongoing support, guidance, kindness, empathy and friendship over the last week. Karen has now become part of our extended circle of close family friends.
Daughter of the late Sveta Dordevich
Lady Anne Funerals has the compassion, understanding and empathy that many of the larger funeral homes do not possess. My aunts funeral was dignified and classy everything she deserved. I would highly recommend Lady Anne (and have) as they go above and beyond.
Joanne Marks
I am overwhelmed with the feedback on how beautiful it all was from all who attended. You and the other ladies were wonderful, looked so elegant, and made the day so very special for all who loved Paul.
Barbara Sommerville Enright
Karen and her staff treated us with the utmost respect we could not have been in better hands during this difficult time. My mum had organised her funeral with a prepaid funeral plan which she had purchased from Karen almost ten years ago this also made this upsetting time much easier to deal with and she got all the things that she wished for.
Malcolm Ellis
On behalf of my family, I would like to thank Lady Anne Funerals for a beautiful service yesterday for my aunt Dot. All who attended commented on how lovely the service was & the professionalism of all the staff. Thanks again very much for helping making a sad day one of celebration of Dot’s life.
Judith Neville

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